Archive - fairy's Substack

i don’t trust how quickly people say “i love you”

on the quiet fear of being loved before being known

Mar 26 • fairy thinks

i wonder how many versions of me exists in people's memories.

the quiet strangeness of being known in fragments

Mar 14 • fairy thinks

February 2026

outgrowing people without meaning to

the soft politics of always being the one who loves more

Feb 4 • fairy thinks

January 2026

i am loved now, but i remember everything.

on pretty privilege, perception, and learning the difference between being wanted and being chosen.

Jan 17 • fairy thinks

how to be a problem people love to misread

lessons in being unapologetically yourself while the world labels you “mean”

Jan 10 • fairy thinks

when grief meets childhood

losing my dad before i finished growing up.

Jan 8 • fairy thinks

i'm 17...and apparently too late.

on timelines, expectations, and learning to breathe anyway.

Jan 6 • fairy thinks

this is not a hot take!

i refuse to type in capital letters.

Jan 4 • fairy thinks

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